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Love is unpredictable; and even more unpredictable than I first thought. Being a man of conscious habits, I have always tried to keep my desires at bay. Well I must admit that I love women and they love me too, but I do my best to make the most rational decision out of anything. Fact is, I am 54, I doubt that I should be in love with a woman again. But then something out of the ordinary happened. I met Jane. She is a 27 years old young, energetic woman, who showered me with care and affection. Soon did I found out that I feel the same way about her. In my mind, I had inhibitions. I know that a love like ours can never be easy to accept for many; but then in the end, its just me and Jane-we couldnt be happier.
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They call me sceptic Freddy. Since my wife and I had been divorced, I never wanted to give love another try. While not many may have known it then, the separation was way more painful that I can manage. I was depressed and felt really bored about life. There came a point when I wanted to initiate my own demise. It must be a miracle though that I chanced upon meeting Beatrice. Introduced to me by a former colleague, Beatrice's womanly air gave me the shivers like the first time I felt love. Since that fateful meeting, I decided to pursue her and take that chance again. Many of her friends and family opposed to our relationship though, and it's not all smooth sailing. We gather strength from each other nonetheless, and we both know, this is the love to last forever.
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One must live his life to the fullest. People seem to be crazy over the idea of seizing every moment life gives you. I am never the type to fall for that crap. I take life seriously. I set my goals and make sure I achieve each goal on time. I hate being late. Time is very essential for me. My niece set me out on a date to one of her "adventurous" friends. I felt weird at first, considering it was my niece's friend but as I said, I finish what I started. I went to the restaurant my niece's texted me fifteen minutes before the set time. After ten beers and three steaks, she arrived. I was on the verge of hitting off and never treating my niece ever again, however her smile made all the difference. How could I ever resist that smile? I can't. Five years after, I still feel weak-kneed when Rebecca smiles at me. I love her. I now realized life’s more fun when you find a reason to pause and seize every moment because you're plain happy.

 

 

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I have recently started seeing an older man. I'm 34 and he has just turned 57. It’s a gaping chasm of 23 years. In the past I have generally dated men at my age or younger. Loving an older man was a “life change” for me.

 Yes, I may not be able to go all misty-eyed at his memories of being a new romantic in 1982, nor he about my girlhood obsession with PJ & Duncan, but as it turns out – and you may want to sit down for this one – we are pretty much the same age mentally.

We have a little bit difference when it comes to our cultural references but that’s the only thing highlighting our age gap. We have similar hobbies like cooking and I find him very attractive indeed

I remember my dear old grandma saying on the morning of her 85th birthday that she still felt 21 inside, and I think this is something people forget when denouncing couples with an age gap. We're all youngsters inside.

 

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Every Sunday I go to church. Every Sunday I see him. Every Sunday I wonder if I'll ever be able to talk to him. Then he suddenly approached me. Growing up I spent most my childhood reading books and taking care of my little brother. I never went out. My family is very religious and believes that a woman must wait for the man to do the first move. Gab has been the facilitator of my youth group for 5months now. Since the first time I saw him teach the gospel, my life has never been the same again. That moment when he talked to me and ask me in front of my parents for a dinner date; my whole world lightens up. He may be as old as my father but the more we spend time together the more I forget about our age gap. He is the only one for me.
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You can all call me lucky; in fact, really lucky. Sometimes, people would have to take a second look to realize that this beautiful, hot lady is with me. Jannie and I started dating since June last year. It was very difficult to win her affections, she was young and idealistic and I'm a seasoned man just wanting to find someone that I can settle down with. Came a time when Jannie fell in love me too, I was in disbelief when she finally said yes. We are happy, we really are. And both of us feel that we are meant to be. While the criticisms around us go about non-stop, we do our best to stay focused on what keeps us together. While our relationship goes against all odds, we remain strong and faithful hoping that one day, the world will understand.